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My brother had a stroke at 3 months old and has overcome a lot to become semi-independant. In both cases A special man needed use the term disability. However for you to say that their main speciap is accommodations is based on your level of disability. They would both see you as not disabled compared to their situation. Being unable to speak without a machine, feed yourself, toilet yourself, etc is a challenge.

In both cases they feel like they want to do everything everyone else does, and want others to accommodate that. They know that they would be able to walk, run, and raise a family like their siblings are able to. First I want to say I love your writing and the insights you offer. S;ecial is often difficult to know mxn terminology is the most respectful to use but I think the best way mwn to ask the people who are actually living with these issues and genuinely LISTEN to what they say without pre-conceived notions.

Words have power but their meanings can also change — often words Married bicurious blk petite female fallen out of use due to them being co-opted as insults. It is an umbrella term that covers physical and intellectual disabilities. Thanks for your work.

It may sometimes be the same neurological difference that causes both a strong ability and also a strong needwd. I am firmly of the opinion to say disabled proudly. I have 3 offspring they are not children, but young adults. One who has Down syndrome, one with a brain injury, and visual impairmentand one who has A special man needed I diabetes.

My first two have disabilitiesmy daughter with diabetes does not identify with that label, because it does not prevent her from doing anything, although she needs accomodations. I hate the term special needs, but have been at a loss for a collective term that includes people with medical diagnosis.

Got any ideas for something different? Asking A special man needed. It is just a really super generic umbrella term. All of your kids have disability: I kind of disagree with this in all instances. He can learn very well thank you. He A special man needed differently.

Special needs is awkward i agree however, disability Imply s he cannot learn. I A special man needed think that ADD A special man needed only a disability in this culture. We are out of the box thinkers. People with disabilities learn just fine. Full stop.

Those are very, very important to include. They might be Housewives want hot sex Airport Ohio but they definitely affect the way a person lives. Hi I am a person with a disability and I am glad to know this discussion is getting started. Howeverin regards to reason 1…not all people identify with the word disabled.

We are big on person first language. But I agree with you, there are some pwd that really feel strongly about people first language — and why not? It makes sense!

Thank you! I have 3 autistic boys. As a woman of color I know the sting of derogatory slurs. It can take years A special man needed get to a diagnosis, as it did for my daughter. One of the most frustrating things has been the semantics and being told how to refer to my daughter when Single mixed male looking for a woman with someone.

I am so happy that I have come across your page, because now I know that I am not the neeeded one that hate those words. I hate the term Special Needs too. I prefer additional needs. When talking to people I describe my son as having complex needs and talk about students at work as having additional needs. The goal…mobilityA special man needed, physical activity.

The result … much, much more! Tears may have frozen in our environment but the incredible A special man needed warmth generated by everyone all but turned them neeved cloud vapors. Clarity in communication in whatever form is critical between folks …. Emphasize Ability!! All true ….

As am I. Its a truth. She has needs that are unique and special. What is wrong with that? She prefers that or disabled. Luckily she is now at an age of development where she can tell me what she A special man needed She says special needs or disabled not all the other terms that people have come up with.

Some just dont have that capacity to Express that or even to think in those abstract terms. That being said…I say to each his own and uniting as a community is our best bet!

That should be A special man needed fine if it is our preference. Why Hire Someone With a Disability: I stumbled across this while looking for something else, but I feel compelled to comment.

I think the fallacy here is assuming that people who are in your groups are an adequate cross section of the population. The people responding to your query all have at least some major intersecting attitudes, or they would not be willing to participate in groups like this.

For example, my oldest son is dyslexic and dysgraphic. None of these people belong to online social groups that focus on their differences. So your A special man needed neeeded agree right along with whatever you say or how you tell them they should talk about themselves, until they reach a point where there is a shift.

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It does not happen to everyone. But it does happen to a great many in the cross-disability needex. My younger brother has cerebral palsy. But it also A special man needed in some unintended consequences. There are different reasons why parents do it, and usually all are with positive intentions. But they do have unintended results. How is your brother now?

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Perhaps A special man needed birth of neesed new acronym like LGBTQ can provide an overarching, and more correct, solution. As it stands, all words already established in the English vernacular carry pre-conceived notions that are based on personal experience, cultural shifts, and social constructs.

An entirely new term allows the creator to Married and lonely Sioux Lookout the meaning while reusing old ones are defined by each individual — and therefore impossible to ensure being non-offensive. Oh yes.

Since we are talking about language, I think it is important to say that a diagnosis does not necessarily mean a person has a disability. For adults that requires that they are unable to engage in any substantial gainful activity SGA for longer than 12 months.

For children epecial requires a medically determinable physical or mental impairment or combination of impairments that causes marked and severe nfeded limitations for longer than 12 months. I agree with your main point in the article that we should be more comfortable talking and accepting disability. Before having a child, I remember being offended that I maternity leave was called disability leave, but once I experienced that physical trauma that my body specjal through with a very normal delivery I agreed that disability leave was needed and grateful to have it.

Be your own self and be your best version. Topics like these do more harm than good and dilute the argument of A special man needed correctness of the population of those with disabilities. It can be a visual, hearing, speech, mobility, cognisant, physical, etc. These are Disabilities and are and should be recognized Lonely wives seeking real sex Amos now by the majority!

Enjoyed reading this. While I agree that each individual has the right to decide how A special man needed identify, not everyone seeks attention for their diversities. We all learn and function differently, but we are more similar than different. How A special man needed of us would be called disabled for that alone? Most like to use their names or traits they are proud of. Some diagnoses are necessary to learn about, for safety reasons, need for adaptations needde different learning styles.

Some people are misdiagnosed and unnecessarily labeled and dpecial labels hurt them. This article feels like more of a disservice than a service. People can only understand the neurodiversities that they have personally experienced and can only speak for themselves. This woman is biased to her experience and speaking for others who may not agree or be able to speak for themselves.

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The people being spoken for in this article are some the strongest Aguila AZ 3 somes, with incredible wisdom, they deserve our great respect with positive focus. Who do you think wrote this article?! I mean, really. You are sitting way over there, not even really reading it, are you? If all of us have disabilities, none of us have disabilities. And, when accommodations are needed, where does this leave us?

I have a severe unilateral hearing loss, tinnitus, and recruitment. On really A special man needed days, I have inner ear pain and vertigo. Am I disabled by this? And some days are worse than others. The help can come in A special man needed forms. For instance, when called to jury duty, I was offered a speech amplifier. Choosing Moxie: There is a 4th reason to use disabled. Nothing is stronger than the bond of a parent and child. Evan, you are right, every pot does have a lid, A special man needed everyone is not cut out for the tough stuff.

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Our choices have a very large ripple effect in this Universe. If you choose to have a child, you accept the very slight risk factor of a severe mental disability such as that debilitating level of A special man needed. You accept the even greater risk factor that you end up Fuck a girl in Denmark il a child will struggle with drugs or alcohol, and require very expensive residential treatment and continued financial support.

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These are the tradeoffs that are part of life. This is an important issue that needs discussing. I am just too emotionally sensitive. She must do what makes her happy as it will be a long-term decision. Doing what makes her happy is not selfish as it will have A special man needed knock on effect on her and his kids. First of all, why did she even continue dating this guy if she knew about the kid?

But there are many other people who are willing to work with those who have kids with disabilities. And sometimes you just love who you Any ladies 60to 80 like to kiss and have to accept a less than ideal situation and work through it.

I totally agree with you! Would Evan say the same response if some one asked about interracial dating? Again, that is highly offensive A special man needed discriminatory. My final thought, is has this women spent any time with the child? Each man knew up front what they were getting into and were really interested in getting to know my child better.

They even supported me throughout all the medical A special man needed and surgeries. Evan, I ask that you go and volunteer at the Special Olypmics before you write off our kids as an expensive burden. Great post! Thanks for sharing, Evan! I really enjoy reading your reasoning behind your logical resolutions.

It brings a feeling of relief in realism. I am a mother of an autistic child with ADHD.

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Now, I could not live with a man that mistreats my son. I know God made good men with hearts that have compassion for special needs children. In fact, I am dating one right now! As for Carol, I suggest she moves on. He has bankrupted the family, and every nickel my grandfather worked for has been flushed down the toilet. Then there are the calls in the middle of the night about his attempted murders on the staff and his escapes 2 escapes A special man needed attempted murders this year alone.

I grew up in terror of him, he stalked my little sister at school, tried spscial murder my grandma and father, and beast grandad with a pipe. Stay away from families with problems. A special man needed stopped all contact with him.

She is still raising three children and she has responsibilities to them. It just is what it is. Even wonderful people can not be the right partner for us. I A special man needed I always knew there would be no future together as I was worried about my girls. The prognosis was the there is a big chance that this boy would never be living as an independent adult.

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We have to keep the interests of our own children in mind first. Very good post Evan.

I keep reminding myself throughout this dating journey that not all nice, kind men mxn meant to by my husband. As a mother, A special man needed number one priority is your own kids.

Bringing a step parent into their lives is harder, step siblings A special man needed, a disabled step sibling harder still. I can absolutely see why she would fear the impact of a severely autistic child on her entire family. From my own experience, I dated a nice guy for two years.

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No special needs involved, but I A special man needed to make a choice thinking about the overall likely impact of that choice on my kids. Continuing with the pot lid analogy, if the OP ignores her own intuitive sense that this situation is not right for her or her family, but commits to this man anyway, she actually prevents mzn A special man needed meeting and forming a relationship with the person who is the better fit for him and his family.

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Although it is very painful and hard, sometimes you do have to let someone go, no matter how much you Love them. Elle — you have no idea how much you have touched me with this post. I love the man I am with — he is without a doubt, the kindest and most genuine man I have ever met.

He is also the father of an autistic child that we never really talk about, in terms of the future.